@Soapebubbles that first cigar trade is a much about a vet here sharing how trades should be handled, views on etiquette, proper shipping techniques, etc., as it is about finding cigars you like. At least it should be. And as this is a cigar forum first, that is why the rules are set up as such, to participate in that trade before any other. Whether you think you need it or not, just do it. It's a great way to get to know a member you might never otherwise cross paths with. And who knows, you might look back five years from now and reminisce about how you met your long time best BOTL friend back doing your initial cigar trade. In the end, it's really all about building a family.