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CaTeacher

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A little disclaimer - I realize I've had it much easier than most.

So when I picked my daughter (Hayden) up from daycare today she just wasn't herself. Very fussy, tenderhearted, just wanted to be held, but never seemed comfortable. My wife got home about 30 minutes later (6pm) and we decided to take her to urgent care. Just as we were ready to leave she vomitted all over me. I change my shirt and my daughter real quick and hurry out the door since they were closing in 30 mintes. We get in right as they're closing, they give Hayden some water and 10 minutes later vomits all over my wife and then me. They send us home with antibiotics for an ear infection and tell us if she can't keep them down we need to go to the ER so she doesn't get too dehydrated. I give her a bath, the antibiotics, and then 10 minutes later vomits on me again. I change her again, we jump in the truck and head to the ER. It's now close to 9pm and I'm sitting in the ER reaking of vomit, but can only think that I'd give my left arm if she could only feel comfortable. Luckily they called us in, gave her a pill to help her tummy, and then made us wait our 2 hours (which seemed like 10) because she wanted to sleep so badly, but couldn't get comfortable enough to do so. She's doing better right now, and I hope she's able to sleep well tonight, as it was just too difficult watching her suffer like that tonight. I know we're very lucky that this is the first time we've had to go through anything like this other than a couple colds and fevers.

Props to my wife who's due in 10 days and handled the long night like a champ. I hope she's able to get some rest tonight too.

Thrown up on 3 times, reaking of puke while sitting in the ER lobby, daughter finally resting and comfortable...PRICELESS!

Sorry for the long read.

Bill
 

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lol I had a similar thing happen to me today, where I realized just how much my kids had changed my life...The kids are my wife's from her first marriage, both girls, one's 7 the other is 9. The 7 year old tends to be the more selfish and emotional of the two, the 9 year old just kind of goes with the flow for the most part...

Anyway, we were at the grocery store getting supplies for supper and I let them each pick out their own item for dessert. The 7 year old chose a pack of tic tacs (lol) and the 9 year old picked a 12box of "Ah Caramel" cakes...

We're sitting around after supper and the 9yr old asks the 7yr old if she can have A (one, single, a, an) tic-tac....7yr old refuses, 9yr old doesn't complain or say a word.

15mins later, the 9yr old decides to break in to her dessert box and takes out a caramel cake. 7yr old has now eaten the entire box of tictacs, and wants a caramel cake. 7yr old comes to me and asks if she can have one...I of course say no, given that she wouldn't even give her sister a single goddamn tictac, she doesn't deserve any of the other dessert.

Without saying a word, the 9yr old comes over, gives me a hug, unwraps a caramel cake, and gives it to her sister.....was just one of those moments in life...
(sorry for the long read, glad your daughter's feeling better)
 
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Hey Bill,

Yeah, I can totally relate. Been through that stage with both my kids, and it's a real tough one. The emotions that you go through are so blinding, and the underlying wish is always that they just get comfortable.

I don't know if this is your first child or not, but my experience (thankfully) has been that, more often than not, it's usually something simple that the kids are experiencing for the first time and are not used to. In our case, when my younger of two (he's 1.5 yrs old now, just about 1 when this happened) was vomiting all night long, it turned out that it was a combination of an ear infection and indigestion.

They keep us up at nights, they worry us, they change our lives... but every moment I spend with them makes it all more than worthwhile...

Hope she feels better... and kudos to your wife. Sounds like you have a house full of champ women! :)

-Fauzi
 

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I hope she feels better to bro. I would bet any Dad on here knows just how you felt!
We all have stories where we would do anything to make our child better now.
 
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I hate watching the little ones really vomit for the first time and seeing that look of confusion on there face. A must to teach them about getting to the toilet quickly. Hope she is doing better and make sure she gets lots of fluids gatorade is awesome!
 

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Glad she is doing better. I have 4 and cant count the times we have gone through something similar over the years.
 

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I feel for ya, hope she gets to feeling better. Just went through that with my son for the first time about a month ago, only it was coming out both ends :hanghead:. Was up most of the night and was sooo glad when he finally started feeling better. And kudos to your wife for being such a trooper :applause:.

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I can relate totally. I have a 9 year old step daughter who is pretty easy going and a 10 month old son. he had his first ear infection a couple of months ago and it was the first time I wished for anything to make him feel better. The lack of sleep and up all night never even crossed my mind and got right up to have breakfast with my daughter before school like it was nothing. Having kids really does change your entire perspective.
 

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Never had kids, but i used to help babysit my brothers and sisters growing
up for my parents, and sometimes its not fun, but you deal with it, things
eventually get better, and you keep it moving..... Such is life. I hope she's
doing better, and way to be there for your baby! A lot of people, (nor their
children) have that luxury...
 

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Thanks for the well wishes for Hayden and for sharing your stories as well.

A couple things I forgot to mention last night...
- first child
- she's 21 months
- I know all fathers go through times like this, but being my first experience, it really gives you a new perspective on things and

Update...

So, last night after writing this I start a load of laundry and head to bed and see Hayden's up and crying. We decide to have her try and sleep between us in bed (never done that before) hoping that she's more comfortable that way. She tossed and turned for about a half hour, so I picked her up and brought her out in the living room and held her, so my wife could get some sleep. Hayden would sleep for about 20-30 minutes at a time before she would get uncomfortable again and begin pulling on her ears. This went on from about 1am to 6am, with some Motrin in between. Finally, a little after 6 I took her back to our room and she fell asleep until about 8:30. She woke up in a great mood and you never would have known she had one of, if not the worst night of her life. It's amazing how resilient kids are. I'm working on about an hour of sleep right now, but feel like I got a normal night's rest. Go figure.
 
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Hi Bill,

Glad that your child is doing better. I know how you feel as I have 2 kids that are now in their 20's. Enjoy life's simple pleasures.

Jeff:cryloud:
 
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