I'm in the same boat! Expecting a girl in April. I think I learned my lesson though. I took a nice box of fantastic medium smokes to my wife's cousin's wedding and I think three people took one and smoked about a half inch and set them down then one guy, who I can only assume knew what he was looking at, took a fiver for himself after everyone left.
I really wanted to get some My Father 1922 toros and have the wrappers laser etched with a 'Its a girl' type message but I can't shell out that kind of cash for someone to set them down a half inch in, so I bought a box (not etched) for myself and I probably will get some cheap AF brevas for the non-cigar smoking types and get some other good stuff for those that do smoke.