Praying for you and your family, Nick. One of my close friends has a son with CF. they were devestated when they found out, BUT, he is now 6 years old and is living the same life as any other boy his age. CF research as stated has also come a long way and life expectancy is going up and up and up. They also had another boy after and he does not have it, so even if you both are carriers, there is a very good chance that your baby will not have it.
God bless you and your family, and please keep us updated.