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One of my favorite things to do is teach people about cigar basics and B&M etiquette. I’m continually amazed at how many people want to smoke cigars but are too afraid to go to a tobacconist and ask questions because they don’t want to look stupid.

About 7 years ago, I decided to try and help and since then, every other week during the Spring and Fall, I invite some guys out to my house who are interested in cigars/pipe tobacco and I begin showing them the basics and answering questions. What I will not do, is give them my opinions on brands or specific cigars. My moto is, try everything. I want them to learn it and experience the hobby for themselves but I’ll guide when they ask. As they become more confident in their pallet, vitolas, cutting/lighting, we meet up at the local B&M and I walk them thru the process and introduce them to the regulars; get them acclimated, if you will. Not everyone continues with the hobby but many have.

One of the guys who has shown a real interest, Charlie, just bought his first box of cigars and he’s stoked! Remember that feeling? Well, Charlie bought some cigars that I personally would never have purchased but they were in his budget and he wanted them for when he goes fishing. Yesterday, he gifted me one of these cigars as a thank you.

It’s more than just “the thought that counts” - it’s more like watching a baby bird take flight. Maybe it’s sappy, but it makes me proud.

So, it’s not a good cigar. I will never buy one of these. But, given the friendship behind it, it’s a damn good stick.

 

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One of my favorite things to do is teach people about cigar basics and B&M etiquette. I’m continually amazed at how many people want to smoke cigars but are too afraid to go to a tobacconist and ask questions because they don’t want to look stupid.

About 7 years ago, I decided to try and help and since then, every other week during the Spring and Fall, I invite some guys out to my house who are interested in cigars/pipe tobacco and I begin showing them the basics and answering questions. What I will not do, is give them my opinions on brands or specific cigars. My moto is, try everything. I want them to learn it and experience the hobby for themselves but I’ll guide when they ask. As they become more confident in their pallet, vitolas, cutting/lighting, we meet up at the local B&M and I walk them thru the process and introduce them to the regulars; get them acclimated, if you will. Not everyone continues with the hobby but many have.

One of the guys who has shown a real interest, Charlie, just bought his first box of cigars and he’s stoked! Remember that feeling? Well, Charlie bought some cigars that I personally would never have purchased but they were in his budget and he wanted them for when he goes fishing. Yesterday, he gifted me one of these cigars as a thank you.

It’s more than just “the thought that counts” - it’s more like watching a baby bird take flight. Maybe it’s sappy, but it makes me proud.

So, it’s not a good cigar. I will never buy one of these. But, given the friendship behind it, it’s a damn good stick.

Very very nice. Good Job B. (y)
 

bwhite220

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Where are you finding these guys?
Pervert!

I was wondering how you were coming across these guys that want to try it but hadn't yet as well...
We are pretty active in the community so we meet a lot of people and I’m a bit of an extrovert. So, it happens pretty organically. But, I’m always getting to know people at:

• Neighborhood events
• Church
• Our daughter’s school friend’s parents
• Sport team parents
• My job puts me in front of a lot of people
• the Non-Profits that we volunteer at

I strike up conversations with anyone and one of my favorite questions to ask is, “What are some of your hobbies?” or “After a long day at work, how do you unwind?”. Typically, after they answer they end up asking me the same question.

“Man, I’m really into woodworking, music, cigars, and dark brown liquids.”

I don’t care who I’m talking to, that’s my response and between our two answers, we have plenty to talk about. Haha. I almost always end conversations with, “You should come out to the house sometime and we can talk more about [one of their hobbies] over cigars and whiskey - my treat.”

It doesn’t always happen exactly like that but I think you get the general idea.
 

irratebass

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Pervert!



We are pretty active in the community so we meet a lot of people and I’m a bit of an extrovert. So, it happens pretty organically. But, I’m always getting to know people at:

• Neighborhood events
• Church
• Our daughter’s school friend’s parents
• Sport team parents
• My job puts me in front of a lot of people
• the Non-Profits that we volunteer at

I strike up conversations with anyone and one of my favorite questions to ask is, “What are some of your hobbies?” or “After a long day at work, how do you unwind?”. Typically, after they answer they end up asking me the same question.

“Man, I’m really into woodworking, music, cigars, and dark brown liquids.”

I don’t care who I’m talking to, that’s my response and between our two answers, we have plenty to talk about. Haha. I almost always end conversations with, “You should come out to the house sometime and we can talk more about [one of their hobbies] over cigars and whiskey - my treat.”

It doesn’t always happen exactly like that but I think you get the general idea.
OK fucker this was a great post, fine you win.......anf why can't you be in my neighborhood?

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mjones9630

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That's awesome, B! I'm way too much of an introvert to go around spreading the joy like that.. Wish I could though.
I ended up finding this place by almost accident, then decided to stay to work on my degree.. :D

Not to mention, all of my neighbors think I just sit on the porch smoking huge blunts! :ROFLMAO:
 
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