I am looking at the Kimber Ultra Raptor 45, Walther p99, SIG P226, H&K P30, Springfield Armory XD and a few others
I am also unsure of what caliber to get, i want to get something that wont kill my roommates if it goes through the wall but at the same time i want to be able to shoot someone and be confident they are not getting up. That is why i love my shotty because i know that as soon as they hear the "click-click" i wont shouldn't have to worry.
I have the Sig P229. LOVE it!!! I have it in a 9 mm as my wrists are not as strong as I could wish do to a connective tissue disorder I was given to me by my mom. opeyes: I wanted something I knew I could put a few shots out without getting to shaky. If I could i would get a 40 cal.
I also own a Ithaca shot gun. I recently read an article that stated that fine bird shot is just as effective at hallway range.