Going to the big D and I dont mean Dallas

[smokingIsh]

I have not had much time to spend with my fellow BOTL's these days and I just wanted to let yall know why:

Two weeks ago my wife of ten years tells me she is filing for divorce. This has been a really tough pill for me to swallow. I have two beautiful children and I am very upset over the fact that now they will be pinballing back and forth between their mother and father for the rest of their childhood. My parents are not divorced, so I have never had any experiences with any of this. To top it all off, we have accumulated a large amount of debt. Now I have to figure out how I am going to pay for all this. Bottom line I am screwed. So here lately I have been having some me time. So if you dont hear from me for a day or two here and there, dont worry. I am not going anywhere. Anyway, thanks for listening. :scratchhe


Ish

 

[Cyrann]

Sorry to hear about that bro.

 

[smokemifugotem]

That sucks Ish! You know that if you need anything at all...don't hesitate bro!

 

[Electric Sheep]

Damn Ish, hate to hear this. Keep yer head up as best ya can...you'll make it through, buddy.

 

[JRL]

Damn Ishee, sorry to hear that. That sucks. Let me know if you need anything.

 

[hdroadglide]

dang it josh. sorry to hear that. sounds like you got blindsided.
things work out, even when they look the bleakest. hang tough.

 

[Moro]

Ish, as I told ye yesterday: ye know I'm here if ye need anything.

 

[tatjunkie]

I'm extremely sorry to hear the bad news. The brothers on here are always here to help out!

 

[VillageIdiot]

That really sucks bro. You'll make it out ok though. Remember that you've got plenty of folks here that will help you out, however they can.

 

[Wasch_24]

I have not had much time to spend with my fellow BOTL's these days and I just wanted to let yall know why:

Two weeks ago my wife of ten years tells me she is filing for divorce. This has been a really tough pill for me to swallow. I have two beautiful children and I am very upset over the fact that now they will be pinballing back and forth between their mother and father for the rest of their childhood. My parents are not divorced, so I have never had any experiences with any of this. To top it all off, we have accumulated a large amount of debt. Now I have to figure out how I am going to pay for all this. Bottom line I am screwed. So here lately I have been having some me time. So if you dont hear from me for a day or two here and there, dont worry. I am not going anywhere. Anyway, thanks for listening. :scratchhe


Ish

Dang man, that really sucks...hard.

 

[Cuban Pete]

Sorry to hear that brother. Hoping nothing but the best for you. Remember. We are here for you, let us know if you need anything.

 

[Craig Mac]

Damn Ish, sorry to hear that!!

 

[BagfullofPings]

For someone who has been through it, as a child and as a spouse:

You are so F**KED, but you will survive.

Jason

 

[Volusianator]

So sorry to hear this Josh, hang in there man, it's gonna be a rollercoaster, but I'm sure you'll get through fine. As you know, many of us have gone through it.

 

[stogies&hoagies]

Been there, man. Like Wade says, it'll be a rollercoaster. Good luck. Take the high road and above all else, keep the kids first. They are what really matters in this. The rest is just paperwork.

 

[VirginIslander]

For someone who has been through it, as a child and as a spouse:

You are so F**KED, but you will survive.

Jason

Thats what I call tough brotherly love. Sorry to hear about this tho, man. Anything we can do, let us know.

 

[Phi Delt]

Josh, been there, done it, went back and did it again. You'll get through man. Best wishes for you bro.

 

[jwintosh]

ah man,,, so sorry to hear this! it'll be tough, but you'll get through it. lean on your brothers! it's a-okay to be carried for a while. i've been through it twice... wrap yourself in your children when you can,,, they grow up so quick! and, they are very reselient!!

anytime you need to talk, i'm here!!

 

[BrooksW]

Dude, I am so sorry

Please let me know if there is anything at all I can do.

~brooks

 

[Asher]

I'm sorry to hear that. If you need anything, you know we're all here for you.