I want to enjoy a cigar after supper in the evening but my parents are home. They have told me when I was younger "I never want to see you smoke" but I don't know if they really do care any more. There are not really any parks I could go to around here that's not even legal any ways. If you were wondering I just turned 18 and I am in school so I can't afford to move out.
Parents don't know I smoke cigars...
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Shmear
Megan the Great
Here, here man! I know what you mean. Though, my parent's understand that i made the decision of smoking, they just ask me not to do it so often like, no more than 3 or 4 a week. I can deal with that.
dpmrpa
Indiscriminate Bomber
We do agree with something Ron C.:applause:
njstone
BoM January 2010
I agree with Ron and the others, but here's what I'd do...
Go to your dad (or Mom I suppose, I guess I'm being sexist, lol) and say that now that you're a man you want to make some of your own decisions, and although you could have simply snuck off and smoked a stogie without telling him, that you chose to come tell him that's what you'd like to do.
If my son did that, I'd gain a lot of respect for him for acting so much like an adult. I think your dad will feel honored that you talked with him first, and in all likelihood he'll tell you that you can make your own choice about it (though I don't know your dad, so I can't tell you what he'd say).
That's what I would do, and what I hope my son would (will?) do. But if you go behind their backs to smoke cigars, they'll start thinking that you're doing much worse things behind their backs as well...epic fail, lol. Being 18 and living at home is HARD ENOUGH without adding more drama.
So if you think you're man enough to smoke a stogie, then you're man enough to talk to your dad about it first.
Go to your dad (or Mom I suppose, I guess I'm being sexist, lol) and say that now that you're a man you want to make some of your own decisions, and although you could have simply snuck off and smoked a stogie without telling him, that you chose to come tell him that's what you'd like to do.
If my son did that, I'd gain a lot of respect for him for acting so much like an adult. I think your dad will feel honored that you talked with him first, and in all likelihood he'll tell you that you can make your own choice about it (though I don't know your dad, so I can't tell you what he'd say).
That's what I would do, and what I hope my son would (will?) do. But if you go behind their backs to smoke cigars, they'll start thinking that you're doing much worse things behind their backs as well...epic fail, lol. Being 18 and living at home is HARD ENOUGH without adding more drama.
So if you think you're man enough to smoke a stogie, then you're man enough to talk to your dad about it first.
Only if more people followed them...
Shmear
Megan the Great
Hell... like if i would ever tell them that. I mean, i don't think she expects that because she's my best friend.
And AJ, my mom like's to smoke cigars with me too (once in a while) and even my dad likes to jump in the game and brother and sister.
