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MichiganM

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Hey brothers,

This afternoon I found out my girlfriend of less than a year cleared out my bank account and left town. Left most of her clothes behind, as well as most personal affects. I don't know what to say.

My profile now has an unknown address, because at this time I don't know where I'm going to stay, since I can't afford our apartment by myself now. When I land on my feet I'll update again so I can do some trades.

I get off work in 20 minutes. I then get to go home to what's left of our life...and pack my stuff. I suppose I'll stay at my folks for a while.

A little sympathy could go a long way. I appreciate you guys letting me get this off my chest. My life is kinda.....upside down right now. I'll live though.

Thanks for being great brothers.
 

AZsteelman

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Dude, that sucks...good luck and i know you'll land on your feet...i don't understand the kind of person who can do something like that to another....sorry to hear this.
 

cvm4

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Damn I'm sorry to hear that Jason! It's times like this where we really lean on others to lift us up. Hopefully you will get to the bottom of it bro! Sorry again...
 

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Sorry to hear about that. For whatever it's worth, we're always here for you in whatever way we can. Just take each day one at a time. I feel bad that this has happened to you. She obviously has some issues to deal with, don't blame yourself.
 

caudio51

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Shit bro, let me know if you need anything. I don't have a ton of cash but certainly could send a couple bucks your way.
 

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Well hell's bells Jason...that sucks!

Keep your chin up. Better to find out now that she's not the one for you than a year after saying, "I do."
 

Poni

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Sorry to hear that bro. Contact the cops as soon as you can, she couldn't be to far yet.
 

derek

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Shit man, I wish you best, always remeber you have all our support.
 

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I don't know what to say other than I'm sorry. Hang in there Bro, things might seem bad right now, and that's good because better days will follow.

--Greg
 

Moglman

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I am very sorry to hear about this sad, sad turn in your life Jason. Remember that your family here will be there for you, to help or to listen. All will turn out well, as hard as that is to believe. Good luck pal.
 

indyrob

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I'm really sorry to hear about your problems Jason, and I wish you the best. I hope that you bounce back from this a better man and don't let this weigh you down too much.

You're one of the good guys and it really sucks when a brother takes a hit like this. Let me know if you need anything, and don't worry about being humble...if you need it, you'll get it.
 
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Ohhh man that sucks a lot. Reminds me of when the company I used to work for went bankrupt and I was in California with $900/mo rent and nobody to lend me a hand. Then I ended up moving back home which is the worst! I am still trying to find a place I can afford now.
 
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Sorry to hear about your misfortune. I must say though that you were way too trusting letting your gf have full access to your bank account. Even after my wife and I had been living together for a year we still had separate accounts ... and it stayed that way until after we were married.

My advice - file a police report.
 

caudio51

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tedski said:
Sorry to hear about your misfortune. I must say though that you were way too trusting letting your gf have full access to your bank account. Even after my wife and I had been living together for a year we still had separate accounts ... and it stayed that way until after we were married.

My advice - file a police report.
I was thinking the same thing.

Definitely file a police report. If you are unable to pay any bills, this will help as you are the victim of theft.
 
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Sorry this happened Jason. As other brothers have stated, if you need something ask - I'm sure we'll do what we can. Keep us up to date on how you're doing.
 
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