I do the same as well. I'm pretty sure I've seen a couple of brothers bidding and I have withheld my bid because of it. I'm never bidding on things I "must have now" so there's no sense running up the price on another brother.
Hi Everyone, as mentioned in my introduction post, BOTL needs quite a bit of updating, patching and whatever else I might come across. Over the next few weekends BOTL may be unreachable on occasion as I do migrations or updates, etc. Just be patient - we'll be back! I'll generally try to keep these maintenances until later in the evenings.