Final Thoughts-
Craig posted a great thread a few days ago about the brotherhood, and it was exactly what we needed to hear.
BoTL is a place for us to be ourselves, without malice or prejudice. I consider a number of you guys really close friends and in most cases we have met only a few times, or in some cases never in person.
When you where kid and you went visit your grandparents, you saw that your grandfather had a pocket watch; you asked, "Grandpa, why do you have a watch that goes in your pocket and everyone else has one on there wrist?". Your grandfather stared at you for a minute, made a "hurumph" sound and then explained the type of man that has a pocket watch and the type of man that wears a watch on his wrist. You listened intently as he described times past and all you could think about was how much you wanted one as well. To anyone else the story would have been a funny old mans rambling; but too you it was a heartfelt story. This is BoTL.
If BoTL wasn't here none of us would fit in; we would be the "douchbags" in the local B&M that talked about the flavor, and construction of a cigar while others sat around and asked why we couldn't just shut up and enjoy the stick. BoTL gives us a place to gather and talk about specifics without being labeled or frowned upon, and in the process lets us grow together in the hobby and take it too its potential. Even when we all get together at HERF's and talk about the newest brands and sticks in the way we do others look at us like we are crazy, but too us its the ultimate form of expression and love of the hobby when we can do it in person together.
The bother-hood shouldn't be entered for monitory gain, but personal instead. Of course your gonna get your ass handed too you once or twice, but what you gain in other senses is whats most important.
Dont let crappy reasons be what causes rifts between a brotherhood as tight as ours; and don't like outside situations be why it falls apart for you (trust me its not worth it)
Next time your standing in line at the local post office and your next in line but the elderly woman in front of you is busy asking the person at the desk what the difference is between this months commemorative stamps; instead of getting mad just remember that she is doing what she loves, and so are we. Maybe she is bombing members of the GoTS (grandmother-hood of the stamps) board and is about to make someones day.
Look forward to getting to know you guys better,
Gavin