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Moro

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Well, I just spent quite an ammount of bread on about half the christmas presents from this year (I mean, I did contemplate them since a while ago and haven't gotten to even half the budget I assigned meself; but still...all that money, gone so fast... :frownno:). So, how's everybody holding up?
 
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Yes the expenses suck! I work for AIG so I have no idea if I will have a job next week. I have told most of my family not to expect much! Bad year all around.
 

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Job fears, the markets on a roller coaster ride. money will be lighter than normal this year but still have the family and thats what really makes Christmas to me.
 

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Christmas time is not only about giving gifts,,it's about what we give from our hearts and we're able to give to others more than monetary things. We can give a meal to someone who is hungry, we can give something we have in our garage or basement that we will never use again to someone who would use it every day. We are a nation of people who have much to give but usually will keep or sell it.

We have the gift of time to give to those who don't have anything or who are in hospitals and are living on borrowed time,,,they would like to have company or someone who will give them the time to just talk. Why does everything come down to money? Even those we love would rather have something from you that you made with your own hands,,,,at least you put time and effort into it rather than just finding something and plunking down a credit card and called it a nice gift.

I hope that we can get away from the mindset of feeling like we have to go into debt buying items that will usually get tossed within a year anyway. Give something that you put some time and effort into,,,yourself for instance. I can remember when I had no money to spend I gave people "gift certificates" for mowing their lawns,,,for cleaning their house,,,cleaning their garages,,,spending the day with kids to play with them with anything they wanted to do. They all loved these "gifts" because it was something they knew they could depend on and they appreciated them. After that year everyone wanted to get a "gift" certificate from me because they got more from that than most of the other gifts they received.
 

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No real need to spend on family (they all understand the economy) and no wife/gf. I only get to spend on myself :grin: It's a horrible world :wink:
 

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Christmas time is not only about giving gifts,,it's about what we give from our hearts and we're able to give to others more than monetary things. We can give a meal to someone who is hungry, we can give something we have in our garage or basement that we will never use again to someone who would use it every day. We are a nation of people who have much to give but usually will keep or sell it.

We have the gift of time to give to those who don't have anything or who are in hospitals and are living on borrowed time,,,they would like to have company or someone who will give them the time to just talk. Why does everything come down to money? Even those we love would rather have something from you that you made with your own hands,,,,at least you put time and effort into it rather than just finding something and plunking down a credit card and called it a nice gift.

I hope that we can get away from the mindset of feeling like we have to go into debt buying items that will usually get tossed within a year anyway. Give something that you put some time and effort into,,,yourself for instance. I can remember when I had no money to spend I gave people "gift certificates" for mowing their lawns,,,for cleaning their house,,,cleaning their garages,,,spending the day with kids to play with them with anything they wanted to do. They all loved these "gifts" because it was something they knew they could depend on and they appreciated them. After that year everyone wanted to get a "gift" certificate from me because they got more from that than most of the other gifts they received.
That is the Christmas spirit I've always wanted to find in someone! I bow before ye, mate. (I know that's not the point (there's a load of baking in the near future for me as well as family visiting), but it just sometimes happens)
 

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Tell me about it (yet if ye're reading this, I love ye, Meg).
Your the one that spoil's me! I have told you that a lot of times... i always tell you "Don't spoil me" and there you go... wanting to buy things for me. (I admit, i do get happy but with you by my side I don't need nothing more).

I love you too.
 

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Tell me about it (yet if ye're reading this, I love ye, Meg).
Your the one that spoil's me! I have told you that a lot of times... i always tell you "Don't spoil me" and there you go... wanting to buy things for me. (I admit, i do get happy but with you by my side I don't need nothing more).

I love you too.
aww how cute!!! my girlfriend says the exact same thing,she can spend all her money on me but im not allowed to get her anything ,and if i really didnt get anything, its what i call a first class ticket to the doghouse, and no christmas pie!!.. so what you plannin on gettin her moro
 

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We're giving most of our money to fight poverty, as usual. This year we're giving through World Vision. They have this cool thing set up where you can buy, say, a chicken for a poor family somewhere in the world. And when you donate for that, World Vision sends a little plush baby chick to the person of your choosing. So we're going to give in the names of the niece/nephew/godchildren and they still get a little toy to play with. It's pretty cool. Then every time they play with their little chicken or goat toy, their parents can tell them that they helped a poor child somewhere else in the world.

Then for our main gift to each other the wife and I are giving an entire farm to a village in Africa.

Our personal dream is that some day we can open up a series of medical clinics, orphanages, and churches that we help to staff and train.
 

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aww how cute!!! my girlfriend says the exact same thing,she can spend all her money on me but im not allowed to get her anything ,and if i really didnt get anything, its what i call a first class ticket to the doghouse, and no christmas pie!!..
Hehehehe, so ye've been through this as well, I see!

so what you plannin on gettin her moro
Well, I'm pretty sure she'll tell ye what she got once the holidays are gone.
 

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Your the one that spoil's me! I have told you that a lot of times... i always tell you "Don't spoil me" and there you go... wanting to buy things for me. (I admit, i do get happy but with you by my side I don't need nothing more).

I love you too.
Thread-jack... Schmear, new avatar. I like it, but what are you doing??!!??
 

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Thread-jack... Schmear, new avatar. I like it, but what are you doing??!!??
I'm not doing anything, this is the short story. At my school, every year we celebrate in big the years that our school has been around. So, we did huge costumes (Which, by the way, i was the head director in my class to make the costume xD ) And one of the costumes was a toilette paper... ? I know, weird. And there's a commercial of a toilette paper and a bear using it, so they threw all over the places "bare- fur" and i grabbed one and put it on top of my mouthing like if it were beard. And that's that.
 

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I plan it out a few months ahead so I can spend a paycheck in December on gifts. My list of people is pretty short though(small family in area, no wife, no kids), so I usually can give a few gifts.

Oh yeah...njstone:applause:
 

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appaulding your christmas effort bro!!! well done:thumbsup:

Thanks, it's been fun so far. It will be sad next week when I ship the final package.

It will also be sad because it's been really fun getting packages in the mail all the time, lol. It's cool to see what everyone gave and divvy up the sticks for the Troops. Just one last HUGE bomb to go now!
 
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