I have been sitting around and reading this thread for a minute now and I have tons of mixed issues. I have some understanding in the field of taxation and I understand that group or organizations must spending only roughly 10 to 15% of donations on "the cause" the rest of the money they can just keep within the organization. Giving DIRECTLY insures 100%, but you fall into not getting that tax break your looking for. Correct me if I am wrong.
Second, yes this is the time of giving, but THIS SHOULDN'T be your only time to be in the giving mood, if its family, friends or even someone you have never met. As our organization and club here, we "bomb" each other in great spirits throughout the year, which is almost better than a "set date".
I can not recall the time I have given a person a X-mas gift. I can recall on numerous times, throughout the year, I have given without a blink of an eye.
The Holiday times are for gather of our love ones, and these people are meaningful. Since the entire year is usually busy. Be thankful for the people that are in your life on a daily basis, if good or bad.
I have lost many close love ones at a very young age and having the current people around me, I never take them for granted.
Happy Holidays
Kumar Patel.