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cgraunke

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Spring strong sweet tall green grass grow...
So I went and did some shopping today. Damn diamonds are fucking expensive. My cigar buying will have to take a hit for a little while. I may even have to sell some of my cigars one here lol!
Many here can commiserate Brother! (myself included)
Just plow forward. It has to be done.
 
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Congrats bro! I didn't ask her parents either, but after as long as we knew each other and living together for years it wasn't a surprise. They don't have a real close relationship so I didn't really feel the need. It matters more if they are close or if the father is old school. That said, kudos for nutting up and doing it the "right way."

Diamonds can be pricey. I bought my wife's ring from Blue Nile. Best pricing, higher quality stones than most places I walked into, and a ridiculous amount of options. Just remember they are like cigars... If you have to choose quality or quantity, always go quality... Lol
 
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Many jewelers will negotiate. Cut and color ( I or better) are the most important things to look for and middle of the road clarity (SI1) is fine for most people. Try to find a stone with no fluorescence or very low/slight. Too much and it won't be super sparkly. As said above, Blue Nile is excellent for loose stones but not so much for the band/setting. Congrats on completing step 1 and good luck with the rest.
 
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