I am just getting it all together myself and finally able to do my part on digging ourselves out of a hole, that losing my job put my fiancee and I in. I was out of work a few months and she never bitched, moaned or groaned and only asked that when I find work to help her get herself right financially.
I found a better paying job with a bigger Company and becasue fo that we should be back on even ground in about 4 or 5 months. We lost some luxuries for awhile tv, internet, phone and for me personally cellphone.
But I see a light at the end of the tunnel now and in time everything will fall into place for you and your wife. You have the best bunch of folk on here to vent, worry, nail-bite and just share a laugh with...
You will be in our prayers!