I Agree with many of the comments made above.
To me the most Wonderful aspect of Quality Hand Rolled Cigars is the "Variety" of them.
Sometimes, I'm a Robusto Guy. Others a Torpedo, Corona, PC, Panatella or Lancero.
My standby Favorites are La Flor Dominicana Double Ligero, Olivas Serie V and DPG Lanceros. Non-Domestics? Trinidad Fundadores and the Cohiba Lancero. As others have noted, I too encountered issues with the size as a newbie. Fortunately I learned from more experienced Smokers the simple solution, patience and pacing the smoke.
I go on Flavor, Time available and past History, when reaching into the Humidor.
The concept of "Manly Cigars" is mostly due to inexperience or insecurity. Few experienced smokers will spout such nonsense. But, I have found that I simply don't care for the Huge ring gauges. I consider the 60+ rings 'novelty smokes' and leave them to others.
Like I said......Variety, is a Wonderful Thing.
Cheers!
slack