Thanks to everyone, wife appears to be doing well and in good spirits...they kicked me out of the room at 8:30 tonight...but she was very touched by all your well wishes.
she was more suprised by the fact that I asked for prayers...I really am not a religious man...
I am glad that Andrea has had a successful surgery and is recovering. I have added the two of you to my prayer list as well. May god give you the strength and peace you need.
It is times like this that you can experience the peace of God; if not, you are not letting go.