The way a person holds a cigar isn't a sole indication of their personality. Moreso than the way one holds a cigar, the way a person takes a drag, the way they exhale, the direction and where they blew the smoke, etc. can often be better indicators. Do they blow the smoke up into the air or down? Blowing smoke up into the air exudes confidence, blowing it downwards indicates insecurity...... Does the person really truly enjoy cigars and seem to be tasting the smoke or just putting off a show that they are smoking to look cool? Do they tap the ash or leave it? How fast do they smoke? Do they gesture with the cigar or cigarette in their hand? Do they look at you/make eye contact, or do they look at the cigar/cigarette while dragging? All of these smoking idiosyncracies can indicate a psrson's mood at time of smoking, demeanor, and sometimes their overall personality in general, more so than just the way they hold the stick.