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Reflecting on the past year.

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There it is. That's a picture of the first and only cigar that I've smoked in 2015. A beautiful Cohiba Esplendido from June of 2014. That's the box code of my son's birth.

This past year has been insane. Those of you who are parents already know this. The way your life changes when you have a child is something you can never be prepared for. But the unconditional love that you have for your child when he or she is born is unmistakable. Never did I ever think I would or could love something or someone so much. I love my wife more than anything, but that is different. You all get what I mean, right? Anyways what a year it has been. My son Jack was born 9 weeks premature back last June. It was touch and go for a bit, there were some scary moments, and TONS of time spent in the hospital. There were times I didn't think that I or my wife would make it. But here we are. One year later. One year older. My son is doing great. You'd never know he was premie. I thank God every day for the love and support that my friends and family have shown me and my wife. It's truly remarkable the blessings that I have in my life. Wow............ Wow.

Anyways, if this post seems convoluted or spacey, it is. I can't even begin to wrap my mind around everything I am blessed with. And sometimes it takes a good cigar to remind you of that. And sometimes you have to share these thoughts with your brothers. With your family at BOTL. This place is special. I come and go. I lurk. I'll check in multiple times an hour for days on end and then won't check it for two weeks. Either way I always come back. Anytime I smoke a cigar I am reminded of how special this place is and how I can truly call you all brothers. I've been fortunate enough to meet some of you. To each that I have met in person, thank you for being true friends. To those I haven't met, I'd love to smoke a cigar with you.

Speaking of cigars. The Esplendido was awesome. I don't have much experience with Cohiba, but this was good. Definitely has the potential to be special. Twang, grassiness a bit of balancing sweetness (can't place it specifically) and a touch of lemon. Definitely looking forward to how these progress. 1 down. 24 to go.

1 down. My son is 1. Crazy to think about. But I wouldn't have it any other way.

Your brother,
Paul
 
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Dude, this thing we call life can bring loads of good times. I am honored and proud to call you brother. You had me in tears as your story brought back to memory the first year of my son's life 25 years ago. Thank you for so eloquently expressing that love. We will definitely need to share a stick in the future.
 

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I'd smoke with you again any day! When's the next one due!?!? You my friend are a GREAT father and BOTL. How bout we make a Herf in your honor this fall at my place? It may have to be in early winter. There's a new boss coming..... Either way relish in every moment. I had kind of a shitty childhood. And can guarantee I'll never repeat history. Thanks for the lesson in love brother!!!!!!
 
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Congratulations on the health of your son Paul. Gratitude is a gift that allows us to be joyful in stressful times. May the next year bring great family memories.
 

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Congrats Paul. Fatherhood is a wild Rollercoaster, but it's a ride like no other. I've been tripping out on the fact that my oldest just finished kindergarten and his kid sister (who was also a premie due to my wife's cancer diagnosis) is on the verge of being three. In some regards, it feels like eons ago, but in other regards, it feels like only yesterday...

Keep up the good work. I'll look forward to a time when we can herf together. Until then "be excellent to each other. "
 
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I thank God every day for the love and support that my friends and family have shown me and my wife. It's truly remarkable the blessings that I have in my life. Wow............ Wow.
Amen brother. No matter how difficult your circumstances, family and friends are everything. (y) :cigar:
 

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You got it right, and continue to get it right Paul. Puts everything into perspective. You don't take your blessinga for granted, something we sometimes do in this crazy world. Congrats to you for getting it right.
 

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I'd smoke with you again any day! When's the next one due!?!? You my friend are a GREAT father and BOTL. How bout we make a Herf in your honor this fall at my place? It may have to be in early winter. There's a new boss coming..... Either way relish in every moment. I had kind of a shitty childhood. And can guarantee I'll never repeat history. Thanks for the lesson in love brother!!!!!!
THIS!
 
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Glad everything is going well for you and your family. It gets even better, last night my 9 year old son and i sat around the campfire just talking and enjoying each others company. Best memory of this camping trip. Kids may bring a lot of frustration and anguish at times but they do change your life for the better.
 
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