Thank you all for your support.
I don't think the reality of the situation has completely hit home, aside from her commenting to me, last night, that it would have been nice.
Thoughts go out to you and your wife brother..
My wife and I recently went through something similar, and it's a surreal experience, and quite sadly, far too common. Not ectopic so much as lost pregnancies...
Still coping with it myself, but it gets a little easier each day.
I'm a firm believer in fate though, and I'm glad your wife is on the mend. That's the most important thing, as you can try again should you so choose.