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bballbaby

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Well, figured i'd let you all in on my current situation, as prayers and support will most assuredly be necessary.

I lost my job on Saturday...the day before my birthday. Happy FLIPPIN' Birthday, right?!?! Oh, and Merry Christmas too! Wade had "the summer of Wade"; i've got "the Winter of G". At least he got to golf! All i get to do is shovel snow!:crying:

ANyhow, walked in to Saturday morning work and was asked to have an impromptu review. My 4 year anni would have been on 11/22; they said they wanted to do this one early. I thought i was gonna get a raise for doing such a great job. Seriously, i thought that.

So, they didn't waste a whole lot of time in telling me they just didnt think i was a good fit for the company. It took them 4 years to figure that out?!?! They said it wasnt' that i wasn't doing a good job, and it wasn't that they didn't like me, but they just didn't think i was a good fit. What the hell does that mean? I still don't know. Funny thing is that for 3 years i recieved my full performance bonus, meaning i was doing a good job and things were going well, from the aspect of doing an efficient job and making them tons of money. They didn't have a real solid explanation. In fact, the 2 guys who told me both apologized numerous times. Who apologizes when they fire you?!?! Thyey also couldn't look me in the eye when i shook there hands and thanked them for the 4 yrs experience and the opportunity. But in reading between the lines and knowing what i know, the big fat crotchety 'ol president and founder of the compnay never really liked me and i'm sure he takes great pleasure in knowing he may have potentially ruined a family's financial life. With this economy and if i'm unemployed long enough, i could lose everything, and that prick would take pride in that.

So now i'm in the job market. Great timing huh? I"m hopeful though; i'm pretty marketable, or so i think. And the markets i'm in are somewhat recession proof; thank god for all those govt' programs in place that have money set aside for them.

From a financial standoint, I've got some reserves that will hold the family over for a few months, but don't be surprised if i start unloading a few cigars. And if someone happens to see a stick they think they gave me, i'l apologize in advance. I quit keeping track of who gave me what a long time ago; it got difficult what with all the bombing that goes on around here. Coincidentally, the sale i just had witht eh super premiums was made before i knew all this. i was gonna buy a gun with that cash, now i'm gonna buy canned goods.

I'll thank you all in advance for keeping me and my family in your thoughts and prayers.



NOTE: During the writing of this thread, the mailman came with the mail. There was a box from SmokingIsh that i knew was coming, but i didn't expect it to be so volatile. He sent me a scary looking Frank along with an Opus that i can tell wasn't bought yesterday. Also two nice tubed selections, one of which was signed with "Happy Birthday Gale"

Josh is a standup brother. Thanks for the smiles bro! Best birthday present i got!:applause:
 

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Gale, sorry to hear about your situation...

The job market sucks right now trust me... I have been out of full time work since August, caddying at a golf course 4 times a week to pay the bills, so I feel your pain...

Hopefully everything will turn around quick, you are in our thoughts and prayers here...
 

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Sorry to hear this Gale - Get right back out there & market yourself!!!

These things ussually happen right before a new & fantastic opportunity...

Best luck & let us know what happens!
 

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Gale,

I am deeply saddened to hear of your misfortune. You and your family will definately be in my prayers. All I can say is keep your head up bro! Sell your smokes if you have to, I got your back!!!
 

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Sugar + Gastank might offer you little warm feeling inside.

Keep yu chin up dude, sometimes a door needs to be closed before a new on can open. Prayers go out to you.
 

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Gale,

Sorry to hear about your situation. I'm sure they will regret letting you go. I'm also sure you will be able to pull through. All your Brothers are here let us know if you need any help. Enjoy some time with your family and keep your eyes open.
 
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Looks like you got a serious peter punt dude. I'm sure you'll be resourceful and find a new job. My hope and prayers are for you brother hope all gets ironed out.
 

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Gale you may want to check into what programs the goverment has going that could help. I know of people down here in Florida that are having their Cobra paid for six months among other things. Might help stretch what you've got further so you take less of a hit getting back on your feet.
 
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Sorry to hear the bad news Gale. F*ck that asshole of a president. He doesn't deserve you and you are better off at another company. I wish you the best of luck in finding a new job.
 

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That really sucks Gale. Sorry to hear this. Things usually turn out for the better in situations like this. You’ll wind up with something better instead of working for that SOB.

Prayers go out to you and your family.
 

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Sorry to hear that Gale, but from what you say it sounds like you have some recourse with this employer if you wanted to go that route.
 
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