Our kids are 4 & 6 and this is the first year that they've really been aware of Christmas and Santa, so the majority of our gift budget went to making sure Santa wasn't seen as some miserly ass-hat.
However, my wife hates it when I smoke on our back patio because I usually just grab an old but clean cat food tin to use as an ashtray. She told her folks and they gave me a beautiful wooden cigar ashtray, an aluminum single-stick carrying case, and the book, Cigars for Dummies. My mother in law said the book was her idea while my father in law said the "For Dummies" was his suggestion (we've got a great relationship).
So Christmas was not devoid of cigar stuff entirely. Besides, I am blessed in having a wife who hates the "ashtray" I use to smoke cigars and not just that I smoke cigars.