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Why are good girls attracted to bad guys?

ATCDub

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I will never know why anyone would be attracted to someone who treats them like shit. It's probably rooted in some self-esteem thingy about not being good enough to deserve a nice person to be with. BTW, females are not the only ones who fall into this trap.


For the record, my wife should have done much better than me.
 

caudio51

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I will never know why anyone would be attracted to someone who treats them like shit. It's probably rooted in some self-esteem thingy about not being good enough to deserve a nice person to be with. BTW, females are not the only ones who fall into this trap.


For the record, my wife should have done much better than me.
I think you're dead on with the self-esteem deal
 

Wasch_24

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The last couple of days have been frustrating. One of my good friends got kicked out by her boyfriend (ex-convict) because he's an insecure :ahole: So she's been sheltering here at the house. This is like the 5th time he's kicked her out just based on his "suspicions".

Add to that she's 4 months pregnant with his baby. She just left to go back to live with him :disappoin When she went over to his place earlier today to pick up the rest of her stuff, she didn't even look at him. He end up accusing her that she was on drugs (she did do some, pre-pregnancy). She told him to buy one of those drug tests at the drug store if she didn't believe her. He did (wtf?) and basically inserted his foot in his mouth when it showed negative results.

The whole thing just irks me :gangfire:

As a sidenote... if you can not be totally yourself in a relationship, then by no means should you pursue it.

Thanks for letting me vent...
That sucks man...he sounds pretty immature too.
 
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