A friend of mines has a close group of friends that get together once a month for dinner and laughter drinks and cigars. I was invited two or three years ago. I had a great time and was invited back again and again.After dinner everyone would retreat to the patio for a smoke and some laughter... I passed on the cigars the first two or three times.. I didn't want to be rude, they've already feed me now there are tying to give me a who knows how expensive cigar...anyway the fourth or fifth time I finally excepted. It's been game over since then. Now I enjoy bringing htf's and stuff they've never heard of to the table talks. It's been a wonderful learning, laffing experience.