I love these responses, and I feel all of them. Sometimes, it is just the cigar, or how finely crafted it is, and the people I am with. For me, depends on when I am smoking it. Like at a shop, everything goes away with social structure. Gender, race, religion, sexual orientation, and political views go right out the window and they no longer matter. Sometimes it is how it makes everything else enjoyable. Like when I am smoking a potential Cremo (like a prototype), I sit with the cigar and smoke it. Other times, I have it with company, or while reading (or watching TV). Seeing different angles of the experience. Keep the answers coming. I like seeing different aspects of the cigar smoking experience, because I might find a new way to enjoy a smoke (and anyone reading this as well).