I have a big problem. I'm a little impatient. If I buy a cigar, I wanna just smoke it right then. How do you keep yourself from smoking them?
Patience is a key component in this hobby, whether it's the lighting of the cigar, the frequency of draws, the setting up and maintaining of the humidor, acquiring knowledge, building contacts, building your stash... every aspect of this hobby requires patience to do it right. You have to be able to have a long-term outlook, and set up plan and a budget, then stick to it. As with almost anything in life worth acquiring, you gotta keep impulse shopping in check and be disciplined to budget for what you really want.
The simple answer is buy twice what you smoke, and your stash will age all on it's own. If your budget is restricted, you just have to evaluate how you want to go about doing that. Some guys smoke $2 cigars every single day. I smoke $7 cigars twice a week. Same amount of money, I smoke a lot fewer cigars. I enjoy the occasion more, they enjoy the daily pleasures more. Its your decision, but there's a way to make your budget work, it just takes some discipline.
Is it that you just have so many cigars in your humidors that by the time you get around to smoking them, time has passed or do you intentionally have some that your want to keep as treasure?
Both. Some of us buy cigars just to lay down. I have a few boxes from my kids' birth month/year I'm not touching for another several years, and even then I'm only smoking one a year. So there is some purchasing of cigars specifically to keep as treasure.
I also have a stash now that I spent the last half-decade building slowly; it's been a work in progress for over six years now. My budget is very small compared to a lot of folks, so I can't worry about keeping up with the Joneses or having all of the latest and greatest. Don't worry about these guys who have huge cabinets, some of them just have more disposable income, and others have spent decades building their collection. Rome wasn't built in a day. I just stick to my budget and try to focus my purchases. Avoid impulse shopping, set goals, save for what I really want, and keep at it.