Policy needs to be public and plainly visible. I wouldn't have driven over there if the website said "private parties" or minimum cover of........
If I was a minority or a woman or handicapped and such an arbitrary decision was made "several cigars" they'd be sued.
If you have a private lounge don't advertise it as "visit our lounge". The door was open, the lights on and no one else was there. The guy even complained about how bad business is. I don't consider a $12 cigar a cheap cigar, maybe Saracigar does, but I don't.
There are other places to smoke a cigar in the area and that's where I'll take my business.
Why does this need to be publicly posted and visible? Your third sentence is what's inherently wrong with American society today. What would be the basis of that lawsuit? Unless they were discriminated against because they were a minority/woman/handicapped/etc, there is no basis simply because a shop requires a minimum cover charge or purchase (not to say some ACLU lawyer wouldn't run with it to "make a stand").
Keep in mind they do want you to visit the lounge, but like I said earlier, they also want to pay the bills and make a profit. I asked earlier, what do you think the mark up is on that $12 cigar? Even at a 50% margin of profit, he's making a whopping $6.00 on that sale. It probably costs more than that to run the humidifiers in his humidor for the day. These shops put these lounges in for their good paying, regular customers, who spend money on a regular basis buying more than one stick at time. They are not there for the casual smoker who comes in once to smoke his own stick, or the one he purchased at the time he came in. The fact that they list "Come visit our lounge" isn't an invitation to come, spend a buck or two, and take up space I 'm paying for for an hour or so. It means "stop by, visit our lounge, check out our selections, buy some cigars, enjoy a comfortable place to smoke, then come on back next week".
Don't you think it was a waste of time to drive 30 miles to smoke one cigar at a shop you've never been to? In that thirty miles you could have grabbed a couple sticks from your own humidor, enjoyed one on the way up, had a nice dinner, then enjoyed the second on the way home (assuming the AC/Heater works in your car).
To look at it from another point of view, I frequent a cigar bar about 15 miles from home. I go there once a month for his sponsored tastings. This bar is located in the basement of a pretty upscale restaurant (where dinner for two can set you back a c-note or better). I've had dinner in the place once, and attended a wine tasting event there once. I only attend this place during his tastings, but I go there on a consistent basis (maybe missed a couple in the past three years). I get welcomed with open arms, get personally escorted and introduced to the factory sales rep of the day, and given other, small, special considerations while I'm there. Why? Because, in addition to the $10 each I pay for my son and I, I also buy several drinks, and will more likely than not t walk out with a box of cigars at the end of the evening. Same reason I don't have an issue walking into a strange shop in a strange city. Because I browse the humidor, select some (not one) sticks, pay for them, then sit down to enjoy a cigar in the lounge.
I think a lot of misconceptions regarding customer service arise because of the customer, not the business. Too many think "I'm the customer, I'm always right" and, "Gee, I'm gonna spend 10 or 12 bucks in this place that probably has several hundred thousand invested in the business, he should bend over backwards and kiss my ass, because after all, I'm the customer". Even if his business is slow, that 6 or 7 dollar profit you offered probably doesn't come close to paying his costs for the hour or so you were going to be there. So he risks losing 7 bucks, instead of 15 or 20.
And the "I couldn't afford his prices anyway" excuse doesn't fly either. I'd love to drive a new Lexus, but can't afford one. Do I expect the dealer to drop the price to the level of Chevy Cruz, then complain about bad "customer service" when they refuse? Nope, I go buy the Cruz then call it a day.
Yeah, the "he has no idea of my net worth and what I was going to spend" comment was pretty uppity. That statement really has no bearing on the situation at hand. He had a general idea of what you were going to spend ($12), didn't know you, and had no idea whether you'd be back again.