Girlfriends of best friends...

[IndyPaintballSmoker]

He is either whipped or brainwashed
You don't just not talk to your best friend

 

[okia42]

2 words
Fuck em.....

 

[tazbigdog]

You know the old saying, as for your BF, let him go, if he returns, it's true love. If not, well hunt his ass down.

No just kidding. You have any pictures of his new girlfriend?:tazerblas

 

[Psojka RP,601]

haha!! Thanks for all the help everybody. You guys really picked me back up!

 

[njstone]

Same thing happened to me. Finally, after a year or so I decided to stop letting her get to me and I went to her as a grown up and said "we've had our differences but I am willing to start fresh and accept you as my best friend's girl."

She broke up with him that night.

I like this answer :thumbsup:

Your situation sucks, no doubt. I was in a similar one at one time--it did NOT work to try to make the dude see reason, unfortunately. But eventually, they did brake up and he felt like a total douchebag for how he treated me.

I think that taking the "high road" is the best bet here. Go to her first, and say something like the above. Then go out of your way to do something nice for her ... something you know she'll like. I mean something HONESTLY nice, not some trick to try to get her to be a jerk. If she acts bitchy about it, oh well ... your friend will see that you're trying to make a serious effort.

Arguing with him or her only forces him to make choices. He's spending more time with her--hearing her side of things--and add that to the fact that guys tend to think with their "other head," and the deck is stacked against you.

So be the bigger man, suck it up, and try to be nice. Maybe she'll come around and start being cool--or maybe they'll brake up at some point. Either way, your friend will remember how cool YOU were during this time.

 

[Soundwave13]

Plan a good guys night out with some buddies. No strip clubs or bars, but a something non-threatening to the average girlfriend….It sounds like she will make him decline the invite. So you still go out with the other guys and then come back with a camera full of fun pictures, and some good stories…etc. He will begin wondering why he had to miss a benign night of fun with the guys. This could be the beginning of the end. Planting seeds is all you can do because he is thinking with his dick and not with his brain. It can be difficult for a man under the influence of Pu**y to think clearly. If she says yes, then go have a good night with your bro.

Excellent advice Dave!

 

[Chas]

Got one word for ya mate ~:0)

Pheromones...:ccool:

 

[Moro]

Dave's idea is a rather neat one and gets ye in no problems because that would be pointless, especially if it would be with both the gal and yer best mate.