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dpricenator

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I’m so frickin embarrassed and a bit pissed off. But you guys have to hear this story.

I few weeks back, my wife asks if the company I work for is hiring. I am in sales and there is a pretty high level of turnover, so I said “always”. She asks if I can forward a resume to my manager. The resume is for the husband of a a lady my wife knows from a Mom’s group she belongs to. I told her that not knowing this guy, I was not going to give him a referral, but I would forward the resume. He interviews, get’s hired, he had the proper qualifications, maybe over qualified. Anyway, we have nice sitting area outside where a couple of us have been know to have a Friday after noon cigar by a waterfall and koi pond. This happens to be directly below the Vice President’s window. Albeit 4 floors down, it is easily visible from her office. Well the guys first day was today and on his lunch break he finds the sitting area and proceeds to pull out his pipe, and a bag of weed, Packs a bowl, and take s 3-4 tokes and lays his head back all stoned. This just happened to be at the same time the VP was looking down at the koi pond. She called in my manger, the HR director, and the president and founding partner to witness the event. I got back from lunch, to hear stories about this. Of course HR drew up his walking papers, and his desk is now empty.

I f’n hate referring people for jobs. Not ever once has it benefitted me in any way, not that I did it to benefit me, but fuggit if it has ever done anything but cause aggravation.

The real bummer is that he’s been out of work for a bit, has a wife and kids, and is 3 months behind on his rent, dealing with an eviction. And this is how he deals with it?

I mean shit, I deal with my stress by smoking weed too, but I wait til I’m on my time, on my property. Fuggin douchebag
 

r3db4r0n

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I'm very skeptical about giving out referrals my self because of the multitude of things that can go wrong, very sorry to hear about this.
 

AlohaStyle

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Wow, I was waiting for the punchline... seriously thought it was a joke. Are you kidding me, the dude packs a bowl, out in the open, during lunch time?!? What a f'n idiot.
 
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That's why I hate when people ask me if we're hiring and if I can put in a good word. Even folks you know may not be the same people when they're on the job.

Any way - pm me his info Dave, I'm running low. :grinFU:
 

BigFoot

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Wow, that's freakin' either really boneheaded or really ballsy. What a wild story. Howd the weed smell??.....just wandering, if he's broke probably just some schwag. Lol
 
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Nope, I don't recommend anyone for jobs. I'll hook them up with interviews but I make it clear to both sides I'm Switzerland. Whatever happens is strictly between the person and the job.
 

Ed Monton

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So, you never gave him a referral so I wouldn't worry about it. You didn't hire him.

He left on a high note. LMAO!
 

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LMAO! You sure you didn't know this guy :grin:


That does suck that you sent him their way.
 

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That sucks Dave. I'm always careful about who I refer for a job, or even if I just pass on their resume. In a way, just passing on the resume could be looked at like you at least approve of them. Hope that HR and the boss don't see it that way.
 

SkinsFanLarry

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Dave, definately not your fault my friend.

....does the wife know about it yet?

....and has she said anything to you about it if she does?
 
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