Being only 18, I don't have a spouse. My ex-girlfriend hated it. She hated the smell, she hated everything having to do with it. I believe that it was mainly because I started smoking AFTER we started dating, and she just didn't know how to deal with it.
My new girlfriend, however, has known me only in my cigar smoking days. She loves the smell, the quality time, and just the idea of the whole thing. As long as I don't touch a cigarette, which I promised her, and myself, I would never do. She loves the smell of the cigar and my cologne mixed...it just comforts her.
Ok well there's my two cents!
-Dave